7 Reasons behind break-ups

How did this happen? What did I do wrong? Was it because of something that I did or something that I said? These are the normal questions you land up asking yourself whenever you go through a break up. Well let make that easy for you.

Followings are some of the major reasons for breakups:-

1. Insecurity

This is one of the major reasons for breakups in today’s time. Insecure people have the proclivity to ask everything their partner do and everyone they talk to, sometimes they even want to know what they are talking about. You need to start trusting your partner and believe to what he/she says.

2. Lack of understanding

Lack of understanding makes you insensitive at times. As a result you do not feel when your partner is trying it to convey it to you. It also leads you to do things or maybe say things that might hurt your partners.

3. Over-possessiveness

What you need to realize is that when you are in a relationship you don’t own that person. You don’t need to spy on them, always be with them and restrict them from establishing a healthy conversation with someone else. Give them ample amount of liberty to him/her to do what they will or the person will suffocate.

4. Wrong alignments on thinking

Breakups also happen when your thoughts and belief don’t match to that of your partners. There if a lot of friction and tension for the same reason and you land up fighting most of the time.

5. Stagnant relationship status

Couples usually go through this problem where they find that their relationship is not moving ahead and they are eventually getting bored. The spark in them is missing with time. They don’t try and experiment new things anymore. They lose interest in each other.

6. Fractured trust

When you break your partner’s trust it is very difficult and sometimes impossible to gain it back. No matter what you do, what you say it is never repaired. So you need to be very certain that you do not break their belief in you.

7. Over-doing of things

Almost everybody likes to exhibit their relationship, tell people they are lucky to have a partner. But at times you land up over doing of stuff which eventually lands up to embarrassment for your partner that he or she might take too personally.

These are few things that you really need to take care of and prohibit yourself from doing them. Hope these suggestions help you and make your life better.

Skadoosh guys!

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