8 Things you will understand if your best friend is in a relationship and you are not

Having a best friend is a great thing in life. You have a company to share talks, walks and feelings. But we sometimes forget that we are just best friends and someday our best friends are going to have a relationship of their own, and that is where the whole twist in the story begins. If your best friend is in a relationship and you are unfortunately not there are a lot of new things you have to go through. Following are some of those.

You are always a victim to divided attention. After gaining a relationship you best friend wishes you to understand that how important is it for him/her to give the other person the importance and time. Being a best friend you always wish to support your friend and agree with the divided attention you are victim to.

The first phase of every relationship nowadays is longs hours of call and texting, it rose up like a culture in today’s era. So you will find you best friend getting engaged in the phone or texting all the time even when you are with him and you are not able to tell anything as you do not want to upset them.

Every time you make up a plan to hang out, you are to make sure that your friend is not already booked with his/her partner. There will be times when you even have to call them both to hang out in order to be able to spend some time with your best friend.

There are times when you feel uncomfortable when they get all cohesive before you. This is a very awkward situation as on one hand you think why don’t they just get a room but on the other hand you feel like you too need to be in a relationship now.

It may be any topic you and your best friend might be talking about but it is eventually going to land up to their relationship. It is like an anchor that pulls every topic towards it, and you have to bear it every single time.

If your best friend is in a relationship you are going to hear all kinds of good and bad stuffs about his/her partner. You are going to hear things which is of no use to you, but as your best friend want to share these things with someone it is going to be you.

After all those discussion with your best friend about his/her partner there comes a time when even you know ample amount of stuff about the person. From what time the person gets up to what the person eats, to what kind of ice cream they like. You have so much information about your best friend’s partner that you are confused if you are dating the person instead of your best friend

Even after the break up you are required to cheer your best friend. This is all your work to do. You best friend is going to come to you after his/her break for support. Then you are the one who’s prime work is now to take out your friend from grief.