8 Signs You’re Putting Way Too Much Effort into Your Relationship

Every relationship more or less requires efforts. We all try our best to make our relationship work and be a success. We want to give in so much that people feel envy of the couple we are. But we need to understand the difference between putting efforts and putting way too much effort into your relationship. Sure fire signs you are putting way too much effort into your relationship.

1. You are the first one to plan everything

It is you always who are the first one to plan an outing. If you do not put in efforts they do not even bother about meeting you up. You try to adjust yourself in his plans.

2. You adjust on every issue

You have a lot of differences in your choices, preferences, lifestyle and ideology and it is always you who change things and preferences. You adjust yourself according to his moods. Because you know he is not going to change for you.

3. You always manage your time for your partner

Your partner is never busy. Mind you NEVER. They have their other plans with their friends or office schedules. You are the one who needs to manage your time to get into his plans and time as he is never ever free for you.

4. You try not to fight

There are things that disturb you a lot. You try to avoid all the possible reasons for fight; because you know he is not going to put in any extra effort and will eventually blame you for the reaction he had.

5. You try to meet ASAP

You put in your efforts to meet ASAP. You try to meet on a regular basis to let the fire flies glow as you know that the things are not going well.

6. You put your efforts in a conversation

It is always an hmm, haan, yeah.. from his side in a conversation. You try your best to start any conversation to which you can get more than hmm, haan, yeah. You try that he enjoys the conversation.

7. You feel sort of desperate

You still have those butterflies in you that force you to talk with him or meet him. You are desperate to be with him. You try to make him happy doing everything possible.

8. You rationalise their behaviour

You try to calm yourself for his behaviour by rationalising him. You have thoughts like “Office me hoga”, “Busy hoga”, “may be boss se kuch baat ho gayi ho” to pacify his action. And you know you are only making a fool of yourself.