7 Things about Sex We’ve All Secretly Wondered Ever!

Sex is a big hullabaloo in India. It is something people talk about in low voice. Everybody has questions in their mind and are curious about it but no one has the right to be out-loud when it comes to sex. Here are things about sex we have all secretly wondered ever.

1. Do you really need to be cleaned for First-Time Or Every Time Sex?

Cleaning downside is not only good for sex but also for self-hygiene. If you are not clean down there, does not mean you will have bad sex experience. It’s just for self-hygiene and clean body parts always give more arousal during sex. So, it is a choice to get cleaned.

2. Do you always bleed during your first time?

No, not everyone bleeds when they have sex for the first time. Many times the hymen can break during sports activities and even vigorous walking. And sometimes when it breaks, the bleeding is barely noticeable. So if you don’t bleed during sex, it’s nothing abnormal or something to question about your sanctity.

3. Is it weird if you don’t want to have sex?

No, it is not weird not wanting to have sex. It’s completely normal and absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. Be clear about it with your partner as expressing this is very important because you shouldn’t have to force yourself to have sex just to please your partner.

4. Does it hurt every time?

It hurts for the very first time and slightly for the 2nd or 3rd time but if you have had sex a few times and you are still feeling pain like you’re having sex for the first time, it is time you visit a gynae as they will be super helpful in a situation like this rather than suffering in silence.

5. Does size really matter?

This is one on-going debate-able topic. The nerves that sense pleasure are concentrated in the first few centimeters of the vagina. If it’s too big, do not run away screaming but express your concern. Use lubricants to make things easier. If it is too small, there are tons of positions out there for you to try. Don’t be scared to experiment with him, remember it is just first few centimeters of vagina that sense the pleasure.

6. Is sex without condoms more pleasure?

Yes having sex without condom gives pleasure. Otherwise you can use birth control pills, IUDs or vaginal rings. There are many more birth control measures that are easily available at medical stores. You can try this when you want to have wild sex or have fetish.

7. What will he feel about my Taste/Smell down there?

You should be confident about your body. Boys don’t overthink while having sex as much as girls do. Your taste and smell down there might not be a big concern for him. If it still bothers you, you can follow these tips: Do not use soap always use V-wash or intimate care washes, prefer cotton panties, you should always pee after sex and take a warm bath.