8 Different Stages Girl Goes Through To Get Over Her Ex!

By- Shreya Sharma

This is that “itna life kharab ho gaya hai mera, itna life kharab ho gaya hai mera” phase where everything is all sad, gloomy and dull. You feel nothing can go right in your life. You blame yourself for even a stopped wall clock, basically you find everything going wrong only because of you. Here are different stages girl goes through to get over her ex.

1. Cry a bit, a lot, whole time

Okay, this is the time to cry, we understand. You are going through a heartbreak, this outburst is necessary. You cry and scream at your highest pitch. You cry whenever you are alone or with someone you can share your pain.

2. Cribbing about ex

Your best friends know about what your ex meant to you, she knows your pain. You crib about your ex in front of them. In this stage you are probably shocked, so your first instinct is to be angry. So you rant about all of the things that lead to this moment.

3. Deleting him

This is like you do not want even a little bit of his presence in your life. You delete his number, your pictures, his Facebook account, Instagram account, Snapchat account from your list. You even scan for anything belonging to him, to flush that out of your life.

4. Playlist of sad songs

You have a playlist of all sad songs in your phone, that plays on a loop and help you cry and realize the fact that it is all over between you. Now you understand the lyrics of each and every song you listen.

5. Making new friends

Then comes a phase, when you are partly into that sadness and partly into the “I have accepted it” zone. There you are open to new people, making new friends and gelling around. You start exploring your hidden self again.

6. Parties

You start going for parties, clubbing and trying new things and things that were of past for you. You wine and dine, not to forget the pain of heratbreak but to enjoy your single life again.

7. Take a getaway

You prefer going on road trips, vacations with your friends, so as to explore more about you and add new experiences in your life.

8. Forget and move on

And then you are confident, self-dependent and far away from the pain of separation. You are over your ex now. You have forgiven and forget the things of past.