12 Things That Even Damage The Strongest Relationship!

By- Shreya Sharma

We know that nothing is certain in this world, Change is the only constant. We are not sure of our relationship’s future but that does not mean we should quit putting our efforts into our relationship. Despite how difficult things get or how many mistakes you make; just keep working on your relationship. 12 things you should avoid in your relationship that can damage even the strongest of relationship.

1. Cheating

Cheating is like taking away someone’s pride, trust and take on love. It leaves the other person shattered and broken and it is difficult for that person to rehabilitate themselves.

2. Trust issues

When either of you have trust issues, it is one big problem for your relationship. Trust is one big factor that binds two people together and if that does not exist, you will keep on spying on your partner which will lead to fights and break up.

3. Hiding things from past

You should be frank and open about your past so that it does not hamper your relationship in future. Imagine the situation, when you are in a relationship from a long time and now you get to know that your boyfriend had relationships earlier than this as well, won’t that infuriate you and put you in utter shock!?

4. Expectations

Expectations always hurt. This statement is enough to warn you and make you understand that having too much of expectations will only hurt you. Have reasonable expectations. Do not expect that he will build Taj Mahal for you.

5. Different goals

If you have other aspirations and goals and your partner has other future dreams, then it is on big trouble. If your dreams cannot coincide and are parallel to one another, it will surely create some trouble in your paradise.

6. Lack of intimacy

Intimacy, PDA brings two people more close. Anything in your relationship that holds you two together, increases your affection for each other; if stopped would have devastating results. Be close to each other; physically, mentally as well as emotionally.

7. Taken for granted

Taking each other for granted can fast set in the monotony making things boring and dull. You are not there in a relationship to be ignored or taken for granted. You opted to be with him because you loved the way he noticed you and pampered you.

8. Lack of personal space

True that we want to know everything about our partner and in initial stage of relationship we become too clingy but then this all is fun to some extent only. It is necessary to give personal space to on another to breathe.

9. Priorities

Priorities change from time to time but sticking together for those changing priority is way beautiful. You should change your priorities holding that persons hand. Do not make your partner to be someone last in your priority list or an option or someone you prefer to talk only if you have spare time.

10. Holding on to past

It is necessary to let go off past. Holding on to past will not let you move forward and will hamper your relationship.

11. Fights and blames

If you keep the blame game on, you are surely going to miss the big thing in your life, which is your relationship. Blaming one another for every minor thing and fighting like cats and dogs will not help you survive your relationship.

12. Restrictions

Too much of Do’s and Do not’s will not let you and your relationship survive. Stop restricting your partner for things like “Isse mat milo, isse mat baat kro, ye mat pehno etc.”