15 Things You Need To Know Before Losing Your Virginity!

By- Shreya Sharma

Losing your virginity is one big issue to deal with. You are filled with n number of thoughts. You have multiple emotions of happiness, shy, scared and what not. Obviously everyone’s first time is going to be different but there are still certain things you need to know.

Here are things you need to know before losing your virginity.

1. Not every vagina bleeds the first time you have sex. Some women don’t notice any bleeding at all, but it is true that some women bleed a lot.

2. “Hymen check” is no way to determine virginity. Hymenal tissue can tear from a variety of things, like physical activity, masturbation, fingering, etc.

3. If your first time involves penetration, a little pain or pressure might be expected. It should still be overall pleasurable not painful. If it pains a lot, stop!!

4. Get properly warmed up. If your goal is vaginal or anal sex, make sure to rack up a few other activities before you go there. The more sexual behaviors you engage in, the easier it is for both men and women to orgasm during a hookup.

5. A little extra slickness will help everything feel smoother and more pleasurable. If you feel any pain while trying penetration for the first time, ADD LUBE.

6. Do not focus on orgasm. Getting to know one another’s bodies is as much a part of the sexual experience as orgasm.

7. You’re more likely to have an orgasm if you and your partner are more familiar with each other, physically and emotionally.

8. Erectile dysfunction doesn’t just happen to old people, so don’t freak out if it happens with your partner. Boners don’t always cooperate.

9. There are no free passes for virgins. If your first time involves a penis ejaculating inside a vagina, you can absolutely get pregnant.

10. Use condoms if not for pregnancy protection, then for STDs, even if you are both virgins.

11. Do not try to copy porn. All that violent thrusting and those acrobatic positions aren’t actually things that everyone enjoys, especially not your first time.

12. You are naked, they are naked, and things are going in places that definitely haven’t been there before. Everyone is just as nervous as you are.

13. Your first time usually isn’t that great because one, it hurts and two, if you’re with another virgin, you guys don’t know what you’re doing. After time and experience, you’ll figure out what makes it feel great for you.

14. It will be little awkward, you should just let it happen.

15. It is okay to express what you want.