14 Of Your Relationship Hurdles That Everyone Has Too!

By- Shreya Sharma

We all have low phases in our relationship as no relationship only survives on the basis of honeymoon period. Great, if it is going all smooth and hail but hardly any relationship is left that does not face the brunt and hardship of relationship. If you sail through these you are ready to go through your lifetime. Never ever think your relationship is the only one with a bundle of hurdles, every relationship has and these hurdles bring two people more close and develop a great understanding. Here are the relationship hurdles that literally everyone has too.

1. Sexual problems

Every relationship has this because not always you feel sexually active.  It can be due to loss of libido either in male or female.

2. Different values and beliefs

This is not just you who has to compromise or fight over your different values and beliefs.

3. Stress

This stress could be for ample of reasons such as work load stress, mental health issue, financial problem, illness or anything

4. Life stages

With the passage of time people change, their perception change, they grow. And these changes bother a lot.

5. Jealous partner

One of you might turn into one jealous creature and dealing with a jealous partner is quite a task.

6. Affairs or cheating

Yes, even this is one common problem. This includes emotional infidelity, one night stand, internet relationships, sexting, and short or long term affair.

7. Unrealistic expectations

When in relationship it is better to lower your expectations as expectations only end up hurting you. It could be anything that you still look at your partner as your king and not realizing their real human being.

8. Addiction

It could be you or him who is addicted to something so bad that there is no get rid of it. It could be alcohol, drugs, smoking or anything.

9. Lack of communication

After a certain point of time, the communication starts to face a downfall and there is no proper communication even on the important matters.

10. Manipulation

It could be done from either of your family’s side or friend’s side. Your family or friends starts over involving in your relationship that is harmful.

11. Lack of responsibility

The other person or you might be so careless about things that you run away from responsibilities. It could be regarding health, finance, children or any issue.

12. Domestic violence

This is the most serious problem in a relationship. It can be in either from, verbal or physical or both.

13. Bored

There comes a time when you feel bored of your partner or your relationship and this is due to the monotony in your routine. Change the routine and spice up things.

14. Life changing events

These are the events which are traumatizing and have a great impact on one’s life. Any one of you can be a victim of this. Supporting your partner is the best way to deal with this.