9 Things You Should Never Do To Get Any Guy’s Attention!

By- Shreya Sharma

Being in a social world we all look for social affection and sense of belonging-ness. It feels awesome when people know us. We mold our self in a way that we are appreciated and loved by everyone. But to which extent is it fair to change our self to have certain people in our life, especially to have a guy’s attention? You need not to use reckless methods to get a guy’s attention. Here are the things you should not do to get any guy’s attention.

1. Have sex with him when you are not ready

You do not have to have to be with him just to have him like you more. No!! Do not pressurize yourself. Do it when you are ready and not to get his attention.

2. Pretending to be someone else

You do not have to pretend to be someone else just to get his attention. First, it is better to be your real self and it is more awesome if a guy loves you for who you are and second, the day he will know that you are being fake, he will go away.

3. Show interest in things you hate

You have your own likes and dislikes. It is okay to be different and have different likes. You do not have to like everything he likes or music he listens or his favorite football team.

4. Lose your friends

Your friends are too a part of your life and you just cannot ignore them to be with your guy 24*7. You cannot abandon them; you too have a life of your own. In fact he too will get irritated of your clingy behavior if you do so and might dump you.

5. Change your appearance

If you want to change your appearance for yourself that is super cool but do not change it for someone else because hey!! If he is into you, he is into you for who you are rather than for who you are trying to be. Do not go for a short haircut just because he likes that. Do what makes you feel good.

6. Starve yourself

Do not starve yourself to get into that thinner dress in which you can barely breathe. You do not have to do uncomfortable things in order to look thinner for the guy. Eat whatever you want because it is your body and there should definitely be your rules.

7. Dress skimpier

Do not wear anything you are not comfortable wearing just to have him check you out or get his attention. Everybody wants to look sexy and feel sexy but this does not mean to wear less clothing to get his eyes pop.

8. Career

Career should be your top priorities. True we need someone to be by our side through thick and thin. But this should not mean to sideline your career just to be lost in the guy. Once you are stable in your career, you will sure get attention from a lot of men who understand what priorities are.

9. Dumb yourself down

You should never act stupid because you think it will make him like you. If he can’t connect with you on an intellectual level then he isn’t the one for you. You need more than a physical connection and you shouldn’t dumb yourself down to try to connect with him.