7 Things To Do If Your Guy Is Giving More Attention To Another Girl!

By- Shreya Sharma

We know the level of jealousy we feel when our guy is looking at some other girl. We dislike it when they admire some other girl. We want their attention to be ours only. This attention driven situation can be because of lack of spark and fun in your relationship. It is the time to re-kindle that spark again. Here are the things you should do if your guy is giving more attention to another girl.

1. Do activities, you can enjoy together

Plan for activities that you both like or you used to perform together. It could be your long drives, games, some adventurous sport or cooking together. It could be anything that you both enjoy together.

2. Refresh his memory

Plan a nostalgic trip for him. Either make a video of you two together or decorate a room with all of your pictures and belongings. Or you can even plan the date; he loved the most in the same manner and settings as it was earlier.

3. Set a date

Set a date for you two. Try to meet him up as soon as possible so that he can start noticing you again. Try to have each date with some different flavour and ambience so that he enjoys the change. Do not let your dates to be same and monotonous.

4. Stay strong

Do not panic and start yelling at him, it will only lead to fights and problems in your paradise. Maintain your calm, stay strong. You know you can bring back your man only by being positive and strong.

5. Do not show him your jealousy

This will only feed his bag fat male ego. He will love the fact of you being jealous and it will make him closer to the other lady, initially to tease you and later for other reasons. Talk to him about it, but do not show your jealousy too much and too often.

6. Show some interest in male friend

Start talking to other man in a more than normal way and intentionally show him your connection with other man. This will make him realize what he is doing and will certainly get him back to you. Remember the way Alia Bhatt took help of Sidharth Malhotra in Student of the year to get Varun Dhawan back on track. You need to do the same but make sure that the other guy knows of it and does not get hurt.

7. Act opposite

Even if it kills you, do not show it. Act completely opposite; “be like fine you go with her, I will go with other guy” or “be friends with that other girl in your life” or “do not be too clingy” or “never be too immediately available, take time”. Try to work on these things in a proportionate manner.