Is He Mad At You? 15 Things You Can Do To Patch Up!

By- Shreya Sharma

It is not that easy to win your man back when he is mad at you as it may sound. Every relationship goes through rough times and we unintentionally do things that make one of us mad over the other. You both might have had a huge fight and you just cannot go to bed angry and for him sleeping is his way to deal with things. If your boyfriend is annoyed with you over something that you have caused, here are 15 things you can do to calm him down.

1. Give him space

You might be of those who wish to patch up immediately but the same cannot be the case with your guy. You guy may need some time to think about things, so it is better you give him is much-needed alone time.

2. Do not stretch the issue

If he is ignoring the issue, let it be. If you just had a fight, you cannot expect him to talk with you about it immediately. He may not be interested in confrontation, so wait until you both are in better water.

3. Show him that you still care

Even though you are giving him his much-needed time and distance, still show him that you are there for him. Show him that though you are giving him space, you have not detached yourself from him and he can seek your shelter in need.

4. You cannot resolve fight with fight

If he is angry with you about something you did, this does not mean you have to be angry too. Even if you have valid point, it will just add more fire to the argument. Let him have the last say this time.

5. Give it time

If the things have become awful and ugly, it means you both are still on edge. It is better you allow him to separate from the situation and think about things.  After he has had enough time to register things, then you can bring up the issue to reconcile or for closure.

6. Respect his privacy

If he has asked you for some space, he not talking with you, he will not meet you, so you need to respect that. This does not mean you stalk him on social media to see if he is dating some other girl or is talking about you with his friends. Give him space and privacy so that he comes back to you.

7. It is nothing personal

Do not take it personally if he does not wish to talk with you or picks up your call. He needs time and space to process things. Though it is your fault that he is angry but it is not your fault that he is not talking with you.

8. Do not gossip about your fight

You might think that you were right but this does not mean that you will talk about this with your friends. A little chat is fine; you will have a shoulder to cry on but do not gossip about it. He will not like it if he hears about your argument from others.

9. Apologize when you mean it

There is no point keeping your ego satisfied by waiting for him to talk first. If your relationship means a lot to you, accept that you messed up and say sorry for making him angry. Apologize genuinely and do not put the blame on him.

10. Wait for the right time

When you think he is ready to talk, choose the right time and place for your conversation. Avoid public places because things might get worse as well. Chose a private place where there are less of distractions.

11. Listen to him genuinely

When you talk, avoid turning it into a one-way communication. If you really want to apologize, let him talk about what he felt and what made him so angry. Genuinely listen to him and avoid interrupting.

12. Show him affection

Even if he is mad at you, show him your love. When you start talking about your fight, be sweet to him. Kiss him to get the anger away. You can use your hugs and kisses to win him over.

13. You need not to have the last word

Relationships require compromises. There could be misunderstandings. You need not to be right always and the same is with him. If he is mad at you about something that you have done, be humble and take responsibilities.

14. Make up for it

Own up your mistake and talk about what went wrong. If he got angry because you talked with your ex, do not do it then instead delete his number. Do not give your man any more reasons to be angry with you. Give him all your attention and affection.

15. Try your hard not to do it again

When your boyfriend is mad at you, it’s not enough to just say “I’m sorry.” You have to mean it and prevent it from happening again in the future. Apologizing for something one day and doing it again will only make him doubt your apologies in the future.