6 Reasons Even The Best Relationships Crumble Down!

By- Shreya Sharma

2016 was like a curse to all happily in love couples as slowly Bollywood and Hollywood both faced the separation of most loved couples. We all were taken aback with the thought of does happy and healthy relationship exists or not? The ones who were considered to be ideal couple or defined relationship goals were fallen apart. We have talked about how to be in a healthy relationship but there is much more you need to look at to sustain your relationship so that it does not die a slow death. Here are 6 reasons that can crumble down even the best relationships.

1. Different set of values

Just looking good together and enjoying one another’s company is not enough to bring you on the same page. Having same values strengthens your relationship and brings you on same page. Your relationship will hit a rough patch, if one has different values as compared to another one. Once you are in a relationship, it is better to make sure that you have shared values.

2. Arrival of stress

Life is uncertain and you never know what happens when. If you want to be in relationship, you should be willing to support each other during uncertainties. You need to stand shoulder to shoulder when any stress or discomfort arises. Communicate more openly during these times to sail your boat through rough situations.

3. You are at different points in life

If you are at different point in life, make sure you communicate about it to come to some compromise. If you have age difference, there could a case that you just entered your first job and he wants to get married. Look for the compromise you can make and if you cannot, your relationship will be on the verge to end.

4. The trust issues

Lack of trust can destroy the best of relationships. For example, if someone cheats on the other, it breaks the trust build over years. It is hard for the person at receiving end to come back in terms. In this, it may appear that the easiest way forward is to break up because building trust again will take a lot of time and efforts in the relationship.

5. Your lifestyles are different

It could be that your partner prefers staying out every night and you prefer staying home or you earn and spend but he is one miser kind of. This difference in lifestyle can be one big issue. It is better you both talk about it and discuss it regularly so that you both maintain respect for one another.

6. You are not the one

Sometimes, you just realize that the one you are with is not the one for you although they are great as a person. Just because you get along well and your relationship is going strong does not mean that you are with the right person. This is like realizing that your lover is not the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. It is better to act on it as soon as you realize it.