10 Signs That You Might Be A Bad Kisser!

By- Shreya Sharma

Sure, no one wants to be called as a bad kisser!! We all worry about our technique while kissing but in reality it is too easy and goes naturally. Remember 3 idiots dialogue “Kiss karte waqt naak bich me nahi aati”!! You just need to keep it simple and depend on most basic tips. It is difficult to know if you are a bad kisser or not until and unless your partner tells you about this. You need not to feel disheartened because all you need is a little more practice. Here are 10 signs that you are a bad kisser.

1. You never touch them anywhere else

Though the kiss focuses on the way your mouth moves, but it is also about your body language too. Just sitting there being stiff and letting your lips and tongue do the work will only ruin things. You need to change your strategy if you only allow your lips to meet. Try incorporating your hands like holding his hand or running your hand over him. Make sure you are not stiff and uncomfortable.

2. Your teeth bump a lot

Once in a while it is fine if your teeth knock each other especially if it is all intense and passionate or you are in an awkward position. But if it is bumping more than once every time you make-out, it means something is wrong. Bumping teeth can be painful and it means you are moving too quickly or pressing your face too close into theirs or you are just opening your mouth too wide.

3. You try all the tips about kissing at same time

We all have read so many kissing tips like bite their lip gently, run your hands through his hair, play with his tongue etc. Sure this all turns things passionate but you need not to do it all at once. Try one move at one time before moving on to another move. Make yourself comfortable with one tip first.

4. Moving your head all over

Sitting and kissing in one position is boring and uncomfortable, you should involve some head movement. Move your head to an extent only. Do not make your neck move back and forth again and again. Let things flow naturally.

5. It is messy kind of situation

If you feel things to be confusing, slobbery and awkward, it is not great kiss. Too much of saliva involved in kiss is never a turn on. Slow down things if the things seem to be all over the place.

6. Your tongue is involved too much

You need not to rely on your tongue too much. If you move your tongue in and out of his moth too quickly, you need to slower down. Do not swirl your tongue in fast circles. Keep it simple and slow when it comes to tongue and follow your partner’s indications.

7. You feel your partner is leaning or pushing you away

If it is a good kiss, your partner is going to pull you in more and if it is bed, he is politely going to lean away. This means you are either on too top of him or something is not going right. Catch their clue and work on it.

8. Your lips are too dry

Bad breath is worst and dry lips can destroy your kissing experience. If your lips are cracked, your partner will not enjoy this kiss. Flaky dry lips are uncomfortable.

9. They give you tips

It is not like complete lessons on kissing but they will be dropping hints at you like “kiss me like this”, it might be because he wants to guide you in the right direction. It is nice that he is not pushing you away. It is a sign that you need to practice a bit more.

10. You have no confidence in your abilities

If you feel you suck at kissing or you feel nervous or you lack confidence, it is not going to help you with kissing. You are probably not a great kisser. Kissing is about going with the flow, and if you can’t do that because you’re so scared, then it’s going to make things weird.