10 Signs You’ll Regret Rushing Into Commitment!

By- Shreya Sharma

Sometimes we are just so high with things and emotions that we just rush into relationship and commitment and later we regret that. It may also be because of the pressure we feel others or from our partner. We just rush into commitment and later we feel that we are just not ready for it. It is just the wrong timing not that you do not love them. Timing we know plays an important role in a relationship and thus we just need not to rush into things. Here are 11 sings you will regret rushing into commitment.

1. Your instinct does not support

If you feel nervousness and hesitation while you are going to commit something, then you might not be ready for it. If the excitement has been over powered by the dreadful feeling, then you need to think about it.

2. You are still in contact with your ex

When you are in a relationship, your attention should be only focused on your partner. If you are still in contact with your ex, you are not really committed. If you are still talking with your ex, it means you are either not over it or you are keeping your options open.

3. You plan about next step but hesitate to do it

If your conversation starts with “when we” but you could never take the step to achieve the goal, that means you are not ready for it because those who are ready to take a step finds a way to do it. They put their efforts to make things work.

4. Love is there but you show it to overcompensate

You love your partner but if you are over doing it then you are over compensating. You are using your love, sex, cuddles, and touches to make your partner settle down to the next step.

5. Others do not motivate you

Your friends are getting married, having kids, moving in together or making things official but it does not bother you and you are in no mood to rush into things.

6. You find ways to distract conversations over these matters

You know how to avoid such conversations. Just as your partner starts talking about moving in together or marriage or kids, you nod and smile and move to kitchen or switch on TV to avoid such conversations. You are in no rush of things.

7. You are overprotective about your independence

You notice yourself making excuse of work to stay up at home or to be out with your friends or have alone time, you are just being over protective about your alone time. You are just avoiding the conversations that can push you to the things that you are not ready for.

8. You still look out for others

When you completely love someone, others just disappear to you. You just do not care about the people around you even if they are too attractive to ignore. If you find your eyes wandering and looking here and there, you are not ready to commit.

9. You put a fake smile on this issue

You know your friends or partner’s friend know about the issue of your partner’s willingness to move in or anything and they are bound to bring it up. You fake a smile to them. If the smile is not genuine, understand you are not ready for it.

10. You are taking things easy and do things quiet

You knowing going out with your partner or doing things with him will publicize your relationship, so you prefer coming up with excuses like stress, tiredness or work to hide things from world and make choices you are not ready for.