8 Ways To Stop Liking Someone You Can Never Have!

By- Shreya Sharma

It is really hard to accept the fact that the one we love is the one we can never have or does not hold the same feelings as we do or is interested in someone else. We all have faced it, the pain of being un-denied their love. You may feel that you can never live without loving them and it is impossible to stop loving them, but this can be done. It hurts that the one you love so much, cannot be with you or do not love you back. You can use some ways to stop liking them. Here are 8 ways to stop liking someone you can never have.

1. Realize that you are not a great match

It may be hard but sit down and think about the person they are, what their life goals are and what their values and beliefs are and see if you guys match or not. Being with someone is not about just having intense feelings for someone. The moment you will realize that you two are way too different, you will realize it is not a great match.

2. Realize that they are unavailable

If the one you love is in a relationship with someone else, you need to leave them. It may hurt that they are in relationship with someone else, but if you find them happy in their relationship, you may feel easy to get over it. Sure you will want the best for the one you love and they are happy.

3. Make yourself busy

They are always on your mind and it is hard for you to get them out of your mind, so it is better you get yourself busy with things like marathon, sky diving or anything that will help you take them off your mind. Staying busy will keep your mind happy.

4. Date someone else

This is one way to get your mind off someone. If you put yourself out in the market, you never know who you will find and may be someone who could be your forever and ever.

5. Know if you really love them

You do not know the person completely; you do not know their little details, their quirks and habits. They may also have habits that might annoy you. All you know is that you are attracted to them and the way they behave. You do not know them to determine if you love them really or not.

6. Avoid them

This is one hard step but you need to stay away from them. Do not look chances to accidentally meet them and talk with them.  Seeing them and meeting them often will only make your feelings grow strong which will worsen your condition. So, stay away from them and you will have time to accept things.

7. Accept your situation

You need to accept the situation to get in terms with it. It would be difficult but better in the long run. The sooner you accept it, the sooner you will move on and be happy in your life. Just let it go and enjoy things.

8. Realize your expectations can be unrealistic

Telling someone that you like them, will not make them like you or want to be with you. If you expect the person to love you back than you have just set your expectation high. They have the free will to do what they like and thus it depends on them to accept you as their romantic partner or not.