11 Reasons Why Finding Yourself A Best Friend Is More Harder Than A Boyfriend!

By- Shreya Sharma

With the passing time, we all make friends and lose friends and some we call best friends who later turn into “We used to be best friends at a time”. It is one true story and vicious circle of friendship for all. We all have grown apart from the set of friends and best friends we once thought we could never survive without. Now some of them are getting married, some are having kids and we are here watching their Facebook timeline to know about them. It is indeed difficult to find a best friend for life and lucky are those who have such BFF since longest of time. Here are 11 reasons why finding yourself a best friend is harder than a boyfriend.

1. There is no best friend finding app

People around you assume that you have friends or you will ask them if you need some help but it is not that easy in hectic work schedules. And if you look out at apps and social media, there are thousands of creeps that should better be friend zoned and nothing more than that. Had there been some app for those who are looking for best friend, life would be so simple!!

2. Friends with opposite sex act weird out

And if you plan to hang out with the guy, it sounds flirty and plus their partner turns out to be super protective and it piss them off. Plus sometimes even the guys assume that we are there just for one thing.

3. It is difficult to make new friends

Not everyone is a chirpy, chatter, social butterfly for whom it is easy to interact with people and make the first move to talk with people. There are some who find it difficult to interact freely with someone new and make friends.

4. It is difficult to ask someone’s phone number

Most of us feel odd and weird asking a stranger for their number because we know they may take it all wrong or may not consider us that great to share their number with. It is a kind of anxiety feeling.

5. People avoid you when you say you have no friends

When you say you want to make friends or tell them you do not have friends, they kind of avoid you because you know there sure would be some great big reason for not having any friend but you cannot help it and you just have to be honest.

6. Friendship rejection hurts more

Friendship is all about personality and how good a person you are or how great people feel with you. If a person is not willing to be friends with you, it sure feels bad and offensive because hey! You feel “is there something wrong with me?”

7. After a certain age, it is hard to make friends group

You know you have responsibilities to handle, your job schedule sucks and you have some family responsibilities too, so it becomes difficult to handle all the things together and be a part of a cool group that sure requires your time to indulge into and know people better.

8. You do not wish to deal with fake people

Nobody wants to be around fake people and when it comes to making best friend, we just run away from people who are fake and pretend to be close just for their mere motives that could be anything.

9. With age we become picky

With the growing age we understand that we should be more careful about who we hang out with. We try to make our friend circle according to our desired goals or people who will add to our achievements. We all become picky about the type of people we hang out with.

10. Some friends just make us feel embarrassed

Sometimes we make new friends, we think them to be super awesome, and we call them at night out or ask them to accompany us and bam!! There we are making a troll of us and people rolling their eyes on us as to why we brought them to something that could be the best night.

11. You need to be on same level

To find a best friend it is necessary that you both are on same level and same wavelength. With the growing age, it becomes difficult to find people with same background, thoughts or intensity.