7 Signs Of Toxic Relationship You Should Not Avoid!

By- Shreya Sharma

Love is truly like a blind fold that disappears all the weird and bad habits of the one we love and makes us invisible to all the negativity that is affecting our relationship or resides in our relationship. We just cannot understand as to why people are asking us to quit the relationship we are in or how it is having an adverse effect on us. Sure you have worked hard on your relationship to make it sail but then has those efforts been from your side only? Ever wondered if your relationship is working like a toxic flowing within you and slowly destroying you? Here are 7 signs of toxic relationship you should not avoid.

1. It is never about you in any case

Your dates are planned to the places where he wants to go, you do things according to his wishes. It is always about him, his happiness, his wants, his desires, his needs and his everything and what about you? If your relationship is all about his happiness, you need to get things right.

2. Your life is on hold

When you are in your honeymoon period, people usually put things on hold or loosen their grip on things but if you are out of that phase and you still have put your life on hold for his sake because he does not like you to be out late at night or you have dropped your dancing classes because of him, you need to re-think about your relationship.

3. You cannot remember the last time you were happy

Imagine of the time when you two were really happy together and between the sheets fun does not count here. Do you still feel happy around him? Do you both even know lift one another’s mood? Do you both still feel lost in the moment? If your answer is no, let your relationship go.

4. You avoid the problems in hand

Avoiding the problem will not make it disappear all of a sudden, you have to talk about it once. If your partner is really not willing to talk about it, think about how you would survive this way.

5. You do not feel good about yourself

Do you like yourself now? Or the state you are in now? You have changed into someone you would never ever thought of being. The most important relationship is your relationship with you and if you do not like what you have turned into, nobody else would like you.

6. Put the blame on you

Your partner is so good in manipulation that he puts the blame of every fight on you and sends you on a guilt trip that makes you apologize. If this is your story, make it end now.

7. The changes in your life are discouraged

Your partner should encourage you and support you with your decisions and changes in your life be it career change or a new haircut. If he is discouraging every new idea you present, then it is sure going to make you feel negative for change and you will miss out on exciting life changing opportunities. It is better you change your SO now.