8 Tell-Tale Signs He Is Serious About You And Wants You!

By- Shreya Sharma

Are you confused about if the guy you are dating is interested in serious relationship with you or not? A guy can sometimes give mixed signals which may actually confuse you, if he really wants to be with you or is it just a no-strings attached thing for him! Be honest with yourself if you see any red flag in the initial stage and do not make a fool out of yourself. There are many signs that show a guy is serious about you. Here are 8 tell-tale signs he is serious about you and wants you.

1. He stops seeing other people

If he has stopped seeing others, it means he is so much into you that he does not need to look for anyone else. He knows you are the one who can make him happy and he can spend his life with. He put in his efforts to make you feel happy. If he does not wish an exclusive relationship with you, you will notice him seeing other people or keeping his options open.

2. He spends a lot of time with you

He enjoys your company and vibes and thus he makes time for you. He will manage his time even just to see you for seconds. It is obvious that he is into you else he would not wish to spend his time with someone he does not like. He knows the more he spends time with you, the more he will get to know you and the more it will act as a foundation step for your future.

3. He expresses his feeling freely

If he sees his future with you, he will express his feeling for you. When you love someone, you just cannot hold back your feelings and same is with him, he just cannot hold back his feelings for you. If he is making his efforts to know you and shows his mushy sides to you and shows his emotional side to you, then it is not just a fling, he is serious about you.

4. He shares his goals with you

If a guy is serious about you, he will tell you his goals and dreams. He will also ask you about your goals to know if your goals are in sync.  It may seem to be a normal simple task but it is his way of opening up and letting you be in his life. This is a sure sign that he takes you seriously and is looking to build a relationship with you.

5. He introduces you to his family and friends

This is one really big step and a guy would introduce you to his family and friends only if he is serious about you. Pay attention to the way he is introducing you, the way he tells about you speaks volume about what he feels for you and if he wants to be in your life.

6. His future includes you

He has started using the term “we” for you both and all his future plans include you; this is a sure-fire sign that he is serious about you and wants a relationship with you. A guy will not include you in his future plans, if he is not interested to have a serious relationship with you.

7. He does not play games

He will not ignore your calls or texts or lead you on or saying one thing and doing another if he is serious about you. If he is into you, he will put all the childish games aside and act mature to show his feelings for you. If his actions make you doubt his intentions and question where you stand, then it is better you walk away.

8. He tells you that he wants to settle down with you

This is the sure sign that he is serious about you because he would never tell a girl that he wants to be with her unless he is serious and sure about his feelings. Boys generally do not commit until they are sure.