14 Terrible Things You Can Say At The Time Of Breakup Ever!

By- Shreya Sharma

Breakups are messy and sometimes make people do and say things that they would have not done or said other ways. Sometimes it turns us worse and makes us desperate for revenge and retaliate what we felt.  We are so filled with emotions and “how”& “why” that we turn bitter. It is human instinct that during vulnerable times, we become tough and say things that we cannot take back. And realizing it later never makes you feel better. Here are 14 terrible things you can say at the time of breakup ever.

1. Pointing out your partner’s flaws

You might be pointing out your man’s flaws and faults to make them feel beneath you. But does this sound good? NO!! Do not go pointing their flaws like; you are short, I hate your habit of nail-biting etc.

2. I do not love you anymore

This is terrible for however long you dated. It sounds like after being together for so long, you do not care any more. They are not enough for your love. Though deep down you know there is still love for him.

3. I do not care for this relationship from a long time

If you actually had stopped caring about your relationship, you should have said it earlier. This is terrible that you did not ever care to communicate this. While in a relationship, you have to tell your partner what you feel.

4. I do not trust you

There would be sure mistakes from both sides and one of you might have messed up big time. But these words will just add to the wounds. It is like pointing out that the other person is no more trustworthy and reliable.

5. Telling them you do not find him attractive after sex

It makes your partner think who were you wondering while having sex with him last time and this is sure not a great feeling. It makes them wonder if you were thinking about someone else. It will make them feel that you were just using them.

6. We are better off as friends

It is like you can have fun, laugh together and make your relationship platonic. This is like saying “the sex is not good and you are not attractive, still I find your company good when we are not trying to be physical, so let’s be friends”.

7. Let’s stay friends with benefits

You do not want the official status or tag, all you want is sex until you find someone better. And once you find someone better, they are out of your life.

8. Utter silence

It is worse than yelling and screaming and blaming. This is mean to never call or text or talk with them in general. You had so much together in past, you can at least be cordial. This is like saying you are not that important to give you a reason.

9. Can you help me moving my things out?

This is the dumbest thing you can ask to someone who is breaking up with you. Do not ask him for help, just leave. The process of undoing things and he helping you to move your things out is only going to hurt you even more.

10. My ex wants to get back

This shows that you were just using the other person as rebound and now that your purpose is done, you are throwing this person out of your life. This shows that you do not love your SO; you just needed someone to feel less lonely and deal with the separation.  It shows that you were still into your ex and were not completely into your relationship.

11. You are not worth the efforts

This means that one of you went through so much of pain and troubles that the relationship could not survive. This could be because of the repetition of same mistakes and never learning from them.

12. There is someone else

First leaving someone for someone else hurts too much and second it is like you are leaving them because you find someone else’s flaws more bearable. This makes the other person feels inferior because sure you chose someone else over them.

13. We have grown apart

You are just claiming the obvious after so long because now you know where to head in a better direction. It is something you both already know and you need not to say this.

14. Saying things about weight or size of penis etc.

If this is the reason of breakup, you need to grow up.  If this is just what’s said after the fact, but not the sole reason, then you don’t really mean it—you’re just hurt.