7 Things Worth Changing When Right Guy Comes Along!

By- Shreya Sharma

Being single is a great experience as you need not to be worry about others and their reactions, you need not to let others know your whereabouts or have random fights or quit doing things for them. But this does not mean that being single is all you need, if you love someone or you think the person to be right for you, then it is no harm to change yourself for him because every relationship needs a little bit of adjustment from both the ends. Do not change completely for the guy, do the amount of things that you can and that are worth changing. Read the things worth changing when you find your right guy.

1. Weekend work

Every relationship needs time to grow and if you two will not get any time to spend together, you might lose the right guy of your life. Work is important indeed but you can spare your weekends to be with you Mr. Right. This does not mean leaving your job, if it is important; do not hesitate to work on weekends but if you can manage it do it for sure.

2. Being too flaky

If you have that syndrome of being too flaky about things, you need to change it. You cannot always at the last moment change the venue of date or the complete plan or cancel your date or be late. You need to learn that the other person is no crazy to be always okay with your last minute mood swings. He too manages his time for you.

3. Restricting nature

If you are out of those dominating, restricting ones, you need to change. Everyone has their own life and their personal space should be respected. You need not to be the one who restrict him on each and everything. You should be of those who encourage him once in a while to spend time with his friends as well.

4. Aggressive nature

If you are short tempered and are easy to erupt out like volcano, try doing yoga or breathe in- breathe out to get a hold on your anger. Drink water when angry. These simple tricks will help you change your aggressive nature which will be beneficial for your relationship in long run.

5. Expectations

We all have certain expectations and when not met, they do hurt. We expect a certain kind of relationship and things from our partner; so does our partner have some expectations from us and about relationship. To carve out your relationship beautifully, you both need to understand one another’s expectations and work accordingly.

6. Certain habits

If you are out of those who drinks, smokes or is a non-vegetarian and your partner is one who is anti-to-these-habits, you can try to change these habits to some extent. Your ‘try-at least’ nature will work wonders for your relationship.

7. Being a homebody

You might be of those who do not like to step out of your house and prefer being in your bed, cuddling your blanket and watching T.V. but your partner is one out-going-adventurous soul, you can change yourself a bit and explore new places with him and have some lifetime experience.