10 Things To Know About Before You Sleep With Someone!

By- Shreya Sharma

It could be one random hookup or sleeping with the one you recently started dating, there are several things you must know about them. You may have to face consequences to be in bed with them. Meeting someone, flirting, passing smile and hooking up seem fun and may satisfy your needs for that night but might leave you with some unfortunate circumstances for future. Here are 10 things to know about before you sleep with someone.

1. If they are trustworthy

Listen to your instinct if it is someone you just met because it never lies. Your instinct has the power to tell you if someone is wrong and dangerous for you and when you should clear your way.

2. Their last name

This should be something you should know within the few minutes of the conversation. You should definitely ask them this before going for the between the sheets act with him.

3. A little about their sexual history

It is not about asking how many GFs he had, it is about knowing if he ever had been in a serious relationship or is he just the sleep around and leave kind of guy. If he had serious relationship that means he will be respectful and will be with less people which means less chance of STDs. But if he is the other one who sleeps and leaves, you need to be careful.

4. Their phone number

Sometimes your sexual encounters can leave you with unfortunate things and this is when it will come handy. You could get pregnant or STDs and you need to tell him and get his information. And if things go well and it was fun, you might wish to call him again.

5. If he is single

He should tell it to you straight out of respect, but if he does not, you should ask him if he is single? Know about the relationship status of the person you are planning to jump into bed with. You would never wish to be the other woman in someone’s life.

6. What is their relationship with their mom

The relationship of a man with his mother tells a lot about how he treats women in their life. If he is close to his mom, he will treat you with respect, and if he does not get along well with his mother, he might treat you poorly. This will tell you if he is trustworthy.

7. If sex is big deal to them or not

This is especially for those who are in a relationship because for someone who is there for hookup only, it will not matter or will not be a big deal. Be aware of what sex means to your partner and how it will affect your relationship.

8. If they have any STDs

This is something really important that you should know. Some guys might just prefer getting laid rather than being respectful towards the one they are having sex with and telling them the truth. It is something you should really ask before getting into bed with him.

9. If they have any boundaries

Before hopping into bed with someone, ask him if he has any “no-go” area or if he comfortable with anything. It will save you from making mistakes and ruining a good time. You can also share what you do not want him to do to avoid awkwardness in bed.

10. If you feel safe with them

During sex, it is important that you feel safe and secure. Before being completely vulnerable around someone, understand if you feel safe with them or not.  If you have sex with someone who you don’t feel safe with, you could end up feeling bad about the whole thing and even regretting it later.