18 Things Guys Want From Their Girl!

By- Shreya Sharma

If you think you know guys well, you should think again about it. It is difficult to understand a man’s mind, their needs, their wants and their fantasies. Boys are not that complicated as we think of them. If you think you guys well, you are lucky enough to be on planet earth, but if you do not know what your man wants, then here is your guide. Here are 18 things guys want from their girl.

1. They want you to love yourself

Having insecurities is normal. Boys love women who are self-confident and love themselves. It does not mean that self-confident women do not have insecurities; it is just that they accept their imperfections and love themselves even then.

2. They want you to get dirty with them

They want their girl to get dirty with them, like sending naughty pictures, talking dirty or sending flirty texts. This builds the anticipation and their desire to get back to you soon.

3. They do not want you to pressurize them with decisions

Guys do not want you to pressurize them into making decision. If a guy is into you, you will never ever feel the need to pressurize them. And if he has still not made it official, it means he is not sure about it. It is better you move on.  

4. They want you to be a challenge for them

Guys like adventure and they love when it is a challenge for them. Make them chase you, flirt with them, tease them even if they know that you like him.

5. They want to feel like a man

They want to feel like they are your man, your one and only guy and not a maybe or option.

6. They want you to be independent

They want you to have your own life as well apart from them. They love the girls who can pay their own bills, go out with her friends and spend time on her own. This shows that you are not the clingy types girls and do not need him for everything.

7. They want you to support them

Boys want you to support their dreams instead of making fun of them. If you are his constant supporter and cheerleader, he will surely be into you. They want you to push them towards their dreams.

8. They want you to hang out with his friends

Boys want their girl to hang out with his friends or with his guys instead of taking a side seat and being busy with your phone. They want their girl to be cool with his friends.

9. They want you to be adventurous in bed

They want you to be willing to try new things. They want you to suggest new things to try or surprise them naked at the door.

10. They want you to have a sense of humor

They want you to have a sense of humor and laugh at his jokes. Laughing around is another level of connection.

11. They want you to appreciate him

Just like us, they want to feel appreciated for their actions and gestures. A simple thank you for his act of kindness will work for him.

12. They want you to be open-minded

Guys want you to be open-minded in trying things, going out to new places and living life to the fullest. They want you to try new and different things in bed and in general.

13. They want you to be sexually confident

Boys want you not to be shy in bed. They are there with you because they find you attractive, so there is no need to restrict yourself from doing things that you find arousing. There is no need to feel shy about your body.

14. They want to help you

It makes them feel more of a man. They want you to ask help from them or to help you in general. Ask them to pick up your heavy bag or to open up the tight lid jar and they will feel proud of themselves.

15. They want you to know how to touch them

They want you to know how to touch them. It is not about being perfect the very first time, but it is about learning what they like and dislike in bed and what turns them on. The way they learn about you, same you will have to do.

16. They want you to know how to touch yourself

They want you to know your body. If you yourself do not understand your body, how would someone else know about it? Work on your body using your fingers or sex toys or anything and know what turns you on.

17. They want to be desired

The way you want to feel desired, same is with boys. Even if you are playing hard to get, at some point let that go and make them feel wanted. Do not how too much of affection too soon but be conscious about time.

18. They want you to compliment them

Everyone loves compliment. But this does not mean that you shower them with compliments as it will appear fake. Compliment them once in a while about their looks, traits, personality or any such thing. He will love this fact that you notice them.