14 Reasons Dating An Older Guy Is Worst Of All!

By- Shreya Sharma

You might think that dating an older guy is a great idea for they are mature than that is not the case always. We romanticize older guys thinking them to be more mature, more sexually experienced, serious about the relationship, ready to commitment and super cool. We feel them be more grown up and know how to handle their life. Sometimes age and love do not go hand in hand. Here are 14 reasons dating an older guy is worst of all.

1. There are wisdom and experience gap

They have more experience than you as they have lived more life and faced a lot many things as compared to you. Thus, it will be difficult for you to be on the same level because majorly for everything they will be like been there, done that.

2. They assume they are right all the time

Older people tend to feel that they are right all the time in comparison to younger people. And we all know how annoying it is.

3. You cannot push them back

Since you are taught to trust people older than you and trust people in authority. So you cannot challenge them and you will not be able to argue and have to accept their point of view without argument.

4. It will be difficult to have mutual friends

Your older man will have older people to hang out with and you will be more interested in having people of your age and thus it will be difficult to have mutual friends. And that will make you insecure about your relationship.

5. Intimacy between you can be illegal

If one of you is legally adult and the other one is not, it will illegal for you to be in the intimate relationship. You can fall into a legal trap, so act wisely.

6. For you both, fun has different definition

With the age difference, the idea of fun changes for people. Having fun together comes naturally in a relationship, but your age will be one big issue to find some common interest that intrigues you both.

7. They are legally adult way before you

There is nothing you can do about it if he crosses his legal age way before you. A person waits forever to reach this age where they can have all privileges and it will be difficult for him to wait for you to include you in his experiences.

8. Your age gap is more than just numbers

It could be the case that they are starting their career and you are still in high school that is totally different phases of life. It will be difficult for you to adjust and accept one another’s life problems and struggles.

9. When people ask you “when this thing happened?”

And when you have to answer people that oh I was not that old or I was not that young, not to get with it, you really get irritated.

10. People ask why you two are together

People ask you about the validity and worth of your relationship. People judge your relationship.

11. You might lie to your family

It will be super fun when you tell your parents about the age difference and you will prefer lying to them about the age difference.

12. And then “I know better than you” consideration

They will always use their age to prove themselves right, be it on any issue, fight or any other thing.

13. You want different things from life

Your age for marriage might be different; one of you might not be serious about it. Your man is at the age to get married and he might bring it up any day.

14. Different level of experience

People are worried about you getting hurt, wasting your time, or getting involved in something way outside of what’s appropriate for you or that you feel comfortable with. Of course, date who you want and live your life, but keep your wits about you. Some people are great, but not every older guy is genuine.