15 Things That Woman Find Appealing In A Man!

By- Shreya Sharma

Attraction is a subjective thing. Attraction is not just about the six pack abs or a huge bank balance, it is about being a whole package. There are certain things that a girl may like in a boy, and some others may find it to be completely mediocre. We have seen hot girls dating a mediocre and wondered what she found so appealing in him!! This all depends on person to person as to what they find appealing in a man and what not; though a few things are in common. Here are 15 things that woman find appealing in a man.

1. Listen

Girls find a guy who listens to her actively, very appealing. We love when a guy actively listens to what we say, ask questions, shows interest and participates in the conversation. You need not dominate the conversation but it is about taking turns while taking.

2. Ambition

We want the guy we are dating to have ambition, passion and future plans. He should have that zeal to get what they want. It ignites a girl’s attraction meter.

3. Know etiquettes

The guy should know the appropriate behavior of every occasion. He should know how to act where and what to dress where. He should be self-aware and show maturity.

4. Dressing sense

It is not about being trendy; it is about knowing your style and owing it. Styling into something that you are actually not, is not going to impress any girl. Be comfortable with your own sense of style.

5. Sense of humor

This is something every girl has on their list. We want our man to be able to make us smile. A smile and a good joke are enough to make things work. If you cannot find things to be funny then there are chances that girls will not find you attractive.

6. Easy-going attitude

A girl finds it attractive when a guy can adjust to the changes and make it look easy and natural. If you throw fits, sulk or get angry when things do not go the way you want them to be or the way you planned it, then this is not attractive at all.

7. Kindness

Girls look for a guy who can be tough, but also empathetic. Kindness shows the tender side of a guy and we love to see that side when a guy helps someone in need.

8. Chivalry

It is about all little things like pulling out the chair or opening the door. We love it when a guy takes care of us whenever possible. We just want the man to show us their respect and care for us.

9. Be fit and healthy

We like guys who can take care of themselves. It is not just about going to the gym and getting those six pack abs. it is our natural instinct to take care of someone we love. And it is not at all attractive to look at a guy who does not take care of himself.

10. Do not drink and smoke

To be attractive, a guy needs not to smoke in the presence of their girl or get sloppy drunk. It shows that you have very little self-control. Try to know the girl first before you show your worst qualities to them. If a girl is fine with this, she will still find you attractive.

11. Pay for the bill

We want the guy to at least initiate to pay for the bill in the beginning of our dating session. Even if you are not a millionaire, we appreciate it if the man takes the efforts to pay for the bill. It is not at all attractive if a guy asks you to pay for the bill or to pay for her share.

12. To have self-control

A girl finds it attractive when a guy shows his interest in her and yet controls his urges. We like the soft, sensual touch rather than the groping. We find the guy attractive who takes things slow, shows respect instead of over-pressurizing us.

13. Smell good

A guy who smells good is super attractive. A little whiff of your manly scent is enough. It should be just in perfect proportion, neither too much nor too less.

14. Do what we like to do

It is attractive when a guy makes a date out of the things we like. We want the guy to be considerate and spontaneous. It shows that they care about what we want.

15. Talk favorably

Girls like people who talk favorably or positive about the people associated with his life, be it his family, friends or even ex. Positivity is one most attractive trait.