8 Mistakes You Make That Kills His Attraction Towards You!

By- Shreya Sharma

Are you the one who faces heartbreaks too much? You end up being in a dead-end relationship quite too often. It is not that difficult to attract a good man and keep a healthy relationship with them going. If you feel yourself in this phase, do not worry, it is all fixable and most of us have been through that. Here are 8 mistakes you make that kill his attraction towards you.

1. You think only man will bring happiness in your life

It is one unrealistic expectation. Your happiness is in your own hands. You should be happy with your life and it sure to attract a good man; as happy people work as magnets. Depending on the man to make you happy is like putting some pressure on them. Sure they will make you happy, but you should know how to be happy on your own.

2. You are TOO independent

There is a difference between Independence and being bossy. Being capable is awesome, but it does not mean that you do not accept anyone’s ideas or you know better or you are the only person who is right. Being a controlling freak will kill a man’s attraction towards you.

3. You hold negative beliefs about men

Your past may be the reason that you find it difficult to trust men or understand them. But these negative thoughts are of no help for you. If you think negative like man are not faithful, you may end up in such situations only.

4. You are ready to ditch your relationship

If you have had been in dead-end relationships, there are chances that you will prefer to jump and ditch your relationship in hard times. Commitment phobia can harm your relationship.

5. You chase him

It should be a guy’s idea and wish to pursue you and cherish your feelings. Patience is all it takes to have a long lasting relationship. Do not chase them for closure and let the dead relationship die gracefully. If he wants you, he will go out of his ways to chase you.

6. Making a man the center of your universe

If you give up on your hobbies, dreams, goals, friends and passion for spending more time with your man, you will eventually understand that you have lost yourself. Never compromise with your passion for making your man your goals, hobbies and everything. This will be too much of pressure on him and he may eventually end up parting ways.

7. You are too eager to have kids or get married

It is not wrong to want kids, but sometimes the way women get too eager to have a family with a man, makes it appear that there is nothing more important than that, not even love or good relationship. Marriage and children are very big thing for men, and woman who is too much concerned just about this is a big turn off.

8. You hate being single

You genuinely enjoy being in a relationship is different than feeling doomed when you are not in a relationship. If you just hate being single, the guy with you feels that “it does not matter if you like him; you just need someone to be with.” This just kills the opportunity to attract a good man.