How To Say ‘I LOVE YOU’ For The First Time!

By- Shreya Sharma

Saying those three magical words for the first time takes a lot of courage and confidence. It is not that you fear to say that; it is that you fear its consequences. You fear rejection, you fear the loss of friendship and you fear emotional vacuum. It is most nerve-wrecking and exciting phase in any relationship. This might happen to you that you would be utterly confused as to the man you like feels the same about you or not and many more other questions. Here are the tips on how to say “I LOVE YOU” for the first time.

1. Girls can also make the first move, remember this!!

We girls are no less than boys in any sphere of our life, so why to put the pressure of proposing on boys only? We can do it too. And there is no harm in confessing our feelings first instead of waiting for the guy to say it first and letting our feelings being flushed. You can make the first move too; he might be waiting for you to show him some signs.

2. Analyze it is the right time for your relationship

It is not necessary for you to wait for three months to say those special feeling you have!! Some people catch feelings quick and if you are one of those, analyze the situation first. You know your partner and will have a good idea about how he will react. You know their reaction to the word “Love”, so analyze your move wisely.

3. Remember they can even say no, you need not be disheartened

If you do not get those three words in back, that does not mean that they do not like you or will not love you in future as well. It just means that they are not on the same level and page as you are. And they may not say it back to you because they want to make it one special moment for you.

4. Do not say it, if you do not mean it

If you think you are in love with someone, you probably are because love is one strong feeling. If you still feel confused about if this is love, then probably you are still not there. Do not say it just because you both know one another since a long time. Say it when you feel it.

5. Keeping things subtle too is a big gesture sometimes

Do not pressurize yourself to make it into something grand or announce it with some big gestures. Even announcing your love in the middle of the conversation or watching TV together can be one great romantic moment. And if you things you can make it grand, go for it. Keep your partner in mind before planning your move.

6. Keep it casual

Keep it casual enough that it does not put any pressure on either of you. You can say those three words doing any random activity. You can say it while cuddling, washing dishes or cooking meal together. Keep it casual so that it is not nerve-wrecking or pressurizing for your partner.

7. If it is silence, let it be

Do not expect your partner to respond immediately because of course, it is one big thing to say, if they are taking their time, let them have their space. Do not fill in the silence or speak in between because it can make them say things that they do not wish to say. Do not apologizing saying I love you because the other person may feel that you did not mean it.

Use these tips to make your first “I LOVE YOU” special.