15 Moves To Bring Yourself Pleasure*Ecstasy*!

By- Shreya Sharma

One should know the art of self-satisfaction, rather than depending on your partner only to satisfy you. There are times when you have those strong urges and your partner is not around, this is when this act of self-satisfaction comes handy. Plus if you do not know how to satisfy yourself, your man too will not be able to satisfy you at the best. You will not be able to guide him to reach climax. Solo sex is always fun. Your fingers are enough to take you to a magic world. Here are 15 moves to bring yourself pleasure.

1. Wash your hands

Fine, you are having the strong urge, but quickly washing your hands is not a bad idea. Your hands may have millions of bacteria, and your vagina is sensitive. You will not wish to transfer those bacteria into your vagina and make things troublesome.

2. Maintain hygiene level

Not just washing your hands, you have to maintain hygiene standards. Make sure your fingernails are clean. Make sure your vagina is clean and fresh. Masturbating when you are clean and fresh feels better.

3. Find a safe place

Masturbate when you are in a safe and relaxing place. Masturbating when your friend or family member is in next room is risky as they may walk in. Put on some music that turns you on as it is your pleasuring time.

4. You do not have to start with vagina only

You can start the fun by rubbing and squeezing your breasts, sucking on your fingers and then rubbing and touching on your vagina. Take time to warm up your body, as women generally take time to get turn on. Masturbation is not just about the vagina, so explore your body.

5. Use toys

First, learn about your body and use a finger to learn about how to orgasm and then use toys during masturbation. You can use vibrators or dildos. They will stimulate you and add more fun.

6. Love your clit

While fingering yourself, you should also focus on your clitoris. Take your fingers and move them up and down or side-to-side.

7. Slide your fingers in

You can then slide either one or two fingers inside. Bend your fingers a bit, and then rub them against your wall creating more stimulation. This will make you feel great and you will have better chance to hit your G-spot. Find a rhythm with your fingers which will further stimulate you.

8. Find your g-spot

Your g-spot is 2-3 inches inside your vagina, and you will just know when you find it. The spot is on the front wall and you will feel a rough patch. It helps you get a more intense orgasm.

9. Stimulate your g-spot

Once you have found your g-spot, play around the speed and build up the friction, which helps to create an orgasm. It will make you feel flushed and hot and the sensation will be amazing.

10. Slowly build up to an orgasm

You will not be able to orgasm just with the help of a finger. You will have to build up, turn yourself on and make yourself wet. You can get rough with fingering. It is not a 2 minutes thing.

11. Do not change positions too much

You will take the time to figure out which position helps you reach orgasm when you finger yourself. If you feel you are close to orgasm, do not change your position. Every time you move you delay yourself from orgasming.

12. Play with the speed and tempo

Everyone is different and their body’s reaction to fingering is different. Try different speeds, roughness and positions to know what works for your body.

13. Use one finger for your anus

While masturbating, slip your one finger into your anus and slide it in and out. It will feel great and make you horny, but make sure you have cleaned yourself.

14. When you hit orgasm

Once you have orgasmed, do not pull out your fingers straight away as it will feel uncomfortable and may even give you pain. Keep them in for a bit as it will feel better.

15. Post masturbation

If you have just masturbated, don’t rush to go grocery shopping after. Take some time to just chill out and reflect on how you just fingered yourself. A quickie is always fun, but you don’t have to rush this time.