15 Ways To Make Him Feel Loved And Wanted!

By- Shreya Sharma

Guys like a girl who are in control of their life and are not too clingy all the time. But sometimes, your independent streak may make your guy feel unwanted and as if he is just one baggage in your life. He may feel undesired and unwanted which is sure sign that your relationship may hit a rough patch. A guy needs to feel desired, wanted and needed in a relationship, it makes them feel good about themselves. He feels that he is important and tries to act in a better manner because he believes his behavior has a major impact on you. It is not difficult to make a man feel needed and wanted; a few little things can make a big impact on him. Here are 15 ways to make him feel loved and wanted.

1. Show your respect towards him

Your respect and what you think about him plays an important role in how your man feels about him. If you think he is not capable of doing anything and he is worthless, it will hit him hard. Your words and opinions matter the most to him.

2. Do not reject him

If he is making efforts to make you happy, never reject them. Id he messes up the kitchen to prepare breakfast for you, you should not rebuke him for that. He will hate you for it and feel stupid that he tried something for you.

3. Ask him for help

You are strong and independent, but you can be vulnerable with him and let your guards down. Tell him about what troubles you and show him that you need his support always.

4. Appreciate him

Appreciate the little things he does. Do not take his actions for granted even if he just helped you with regular chores. Thank him for his efforts and notice him smiling when you walk away.

5. Be possessive

You trust your boyfriend completely, but show your possessiveness when he is going to meet some pretty girl. This will make him smile or laugh but deep inside he will feel that you still want him and are scared to lose him.

6. Initiate to apologize

Take the initiative to apologize to your man first very now and then. When you are in love, it is not necessary as to who started the fight and who ended; the thing that is important is you two and your love and closeness. Of course, you need not be a doormat to accept faults always. But do it every now and then to show him that you love him enough to leave your pride aside for a while.   

7. Show your love to him

Tell your man that you love him often. It always feels go to hear these three words from your partner. Not only words use your gestures too to show your love for him.

8. Tell him that he is the best boyfriend

If you really see him as a great partner, then tell him. He will love this compliment. And he will try harder to win such more compliments from you.

9. Thank him

When your man does something for you, even if it is a little effort, thank him and give him a kiss to appreciate his efforts. Do not overlook the little gestures and take them for granted, instead be appreciative of what he does.

10. Tell him that you miss him

If you miss him when he is not around, tell him how much you miss him and how eagerly you are waiting to see him. Text him something cute to make him smile or call him and tell him that you miss him and want him around you asap.

11. Consult him

Consult him and try to take important decisions together. Take the time to discuss it with your man and ask him his point of view and opinion over the issue. And if your opinion differs, try to explain him your reasons. This will show that his opinion matters to you and you take them seriously.

12. Do not be bossy

Do not be bossy and behave like he is the one who needs you. You may think that showing your independence to him will show that you can live without him, but it may backfire against you and he may run away from you.

13. Share your secrets

A guy knows that a girl shares her secrets with someone she trusts the most, so share your secrets with him, it will show him to you trust him and he is important and special to you. He will come closer to you.

14. Ask him for advice

Ask him advice and it will show him that you respect him and his opinion and judgment enough. It will boost his confidence and happiness and he will feel good about himself.

15. Show your affection

Hold his hand while walking on the street. Wink at him when he talks. Cuddle up or run your fingers through his hair when acts cute. He may pretend that he hates it, but they love these gestures.