5 Hidden Signs That Your Ex Still Loves You (Even If He Says He Doesn’t)!

By- Shreya Sharma

Once you breakup, some take it like they are set free from a jail and enjoy it. They are allowed to say whatever you want and do whatever they want and you have no say in anything. He will send you drunken texts but will ignore your texts for weeks. Liking your photo on Facebook, and then unfriending you after a while and making things more difficult for you. You wonder if he still likes you or not. Here are 5 hidden signs that your ex still loves you (even if he says he does not).

1. Drunk dial

Alcohol lowers down your inhibitions and leads him to say what is really on his mind and what he is hiding from you. Be careful if he drunk dials you. Just because he is opening up does not mean that you should open up too. Let him realize the next day that he has revealed that he is into you and he is not sure that whether you too are into him or not.

2. He goes hot and cold on you

Have you ever faced that your ex has constantly called you for a week and then all of a sudden freeze you out and ignore your texts and calls? This might seem confusing, but it is because he is confused about you, what he thinks about you, what he wants and what he feels about you. His brain and heart are having a battle. Do not engage and play cool. Calling him out for being confused will only give him the upper hand.

3. He is trying to make you jealous

Have you noticed him flirting only when you are around? Or is he posting stuff on Facebook to hit your nerves? It is because he is trying to make you feel jealous. It reveals that he still has the feeling for you. He cares about what you think and whether you want him back or not. Do not play into his games and take it as he is till obsessed with you.

4. He shows strong emotions about you

If he would be over you, he will be indifferent. Strong emotions come when you have lingering feelings for someone. He is hurting you because he has unresolved feelings inside him. If he is lashing out, give him space and do not engage or respond. Do not try to turn his negativity into positivity.

5. He tries to contact you when you say no contact

The best thing you can do is cut off contacts with your ex after the breakup. After the breakup, any contact with your ex can make things worse, as you may say things that you will regret later. If you ask him not to contact you, and he still contacts you, then it shows that he still has feelings for you. Do not answer his calls or texts. Prove yourself that you can survive without him.