10 Conversation Starters To Get You Both Hot And Bothered!
By- Shreya Sharma
Words have the power to turn on your partner even in the blues of life. You wish to turn your man on but those sexy lap dance and striptease are way too much for you, then you got to try the power of words. You want some simple subtle things to sweep your man off his feet and turn him on to the level of panting. Learn the art of conversation to steer your man’s mind in the sexy direction. A few subtle lines can help you in this. Here are 10 conversation starters to get you both hot and bothered.
- Discuss the position
This is one major turn on for anyone. Ask your man about if the liked the last position you guys tried and how about trying something new and discussing it. If he did not like that, say that “we could try something else” and start discussing other positions in a descriptive manner.
- Discuss the “areas covered”
Do not limit your sex just to the bedroom. There will be so many places in your house where you still have not had sex. Have you ever tried it in your balcony? Or dining table? Study table? Ask your man “Would you like to try the kitchen counter next time?” and this will sure ignite him. Be adventurous to find new ways.
- Describe how you would have sex with him
“Do you like to be licked or sucked?” “Do you like your balls to be licked or untouched?” Give him the description of things you are willing to try with him; this is enough to get his heart racing. Try to describe these naughty acts in the sultriest and huskiest of your voice.
- Sexy phone call within house
Go to the place where you are planning to get naughty, light some candles and text him saying “what are you wearing?” and then send him an extremely sexy photo of you saying “waiting for you, find me”. He is sure to leave the things he is doing to find you.
- Talk about sex toys and masturbation
Tell him “I would like to masturbate you and use sex toys to please you”; this will be one strong way to say that you want to have sex with him. It can take you some time and efforts to get him aroused but it will surely work and he will love you for the favor and will sure return it back to you.
- If you are at your office and want to indulge in some hot bedroom session as soon as you reach home, start building the anticipation now.
If you know your man is at home and he will be free right now, send him messages that will get him in the mood. Tell him, “I have handcuff and whipped cream” and leave the rest to his imagination. Or text your man “I am at the lingerie store, shopping for some sexy lingerie. I cannot wait to wear them tonight!!” the idea that you are putting efforts to make things exciting will get him high and panting.
- Universal Noise of F**king
If you are not into making moaning sounds while having sex, then learn to make such noises from adult videos. Initially, your partner may find it odd, but once these sounds are registered in his mind, they will definitely create a mental image of what should be happening in order to make you repeat these sexy sounds.
- Play the board games
Invite your man to play scrabble and make as many dirty words as you can like suck, lick, penis, sex, nipples or you can even make slang words like cunt, cock, dick etc. You can even use these words in crossword puzzles to drop the clue and get things warmer.
- Buy your man some romantic, erotic novels to read
If your man loves reading, ask him to read it out for you or to read it together. You can even ask your partner to read out the sexiest and steamiest chapter loud while you lease him with your hands and mouth. Watch him read while try to manage his moan.
- A visual treat to start the conversation
Play an adult film and watch it together. Your partner will prefer something with lots of focus on female lead. Play it and watch it together. Your partner is sure to get high and you both will end up with so much fun.
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