10 Things That Tells You Are Happy In Your Relationship!
By- Shreya Sharma
Every relationship starts with a happy blissful note where it is all love, romance, flirt and butterflies and then comes a phase where we start doubting, we question whether we want something more from our relationship. And these doubts shake our once stable relationship. Usually, we compare our relationship with our friend’s relationship and that is when the doubt comes to the existence. Here are 10 things that tell you are happy in your relationship.
- You spend time doing things you both enjoy
In the initial stage, there are less of compromises as you both agree to one another’s demands. You both try to woo or impress or show your love for one another. If you both have reached a point in the relationship where you no longer spend time together, it might be the time you step aside and think if your partner is willing to make compromises again or if things are always going to be this way.
- You have the freedom to see your friends
Our relationship faces the burns when we are asked not to meet our old friends either because our partner does not like it or because he wants us all for himself. Initially, it may sound cute but with time, it feels that he is controlling and possessive. You are in a happy relationship when you and your partner, both have the freedom to meet who-so-ever you both wish to meet with.
- You have your own identity
We have heard “change is the only constant”. Usually, when people get into a relationship, they ask for certain changes. Initially, you may agree to those changes and sometimes some changes are even important. But if you feel that you are a changed person now as compared to the person you were when you entered the relationship, you need to question what has gone wrong.
- Your fights are productive
Every relationship hits a phase of fights and can never escape arguments. When you are happy in a relationship, your fights are productive. You listen to his point of view and he listens to yours and ends the fight with some compromises and apologizes. This is called growing together. But if your arguments end on a worse note, you are not in a happy relationship.
- You support and motivate each other to do better
A Happy couple wants the best for their partner. They inspire each other to pursue their dreams and live the life they always wanted to live. If you push each other to do better, it means you are in a happy, loving and meaningful relationship.
- You both have your own space
If you understand the importance of personal space and give each other their much-needed space, then you are in a happy relationship. Wanting to spend every second with your partner is the sign of control rather than love. If you both give one another space to follow your hobbies and do your things, then you both are happy together.
- You brag about your partner
If you enjoy telling your friends about your man’s achievements, and how talented he is and how proud you are of him, then you are surely happy with him. if you have to think of the last time, you talked about your man with your friends, then you must consider where your relationship is going.
- You look forward to spend time with him
Ask yourself if you still enjoy his company? Do you still enjoy cooking with him or going for a walk or shopping? Or are you happy doing these things alone or with a friend? If you still enjoy his company, that means you are happy with him, but if you make excuses, then you can see how happy you are!!
- Stupid mistakes are allowed to happen
When you are in a happy cool relationship, you talk about stupid mistakes and move on. While, if your relationship is on rough phase, generally a big argument is drawn over small silly mistakes.
- “I love you” means everything
“I love you” is a simple yet powerful construction of words that puts a smile on every person’s face when in a happy relationship. If you hesitate to tell your partner that you love him, then things are not going too well between you two.
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