6 Things You Should Never Hide From Your Bae!

By- Shreya Sharma

When in a relationship, sharing things with your partner builds intimacy and the solid base for your relationship. If you think that hiding itsy bitsy details from your man will not harm your relationship, even if you do this with the best interest in your heart, it is never going to let your relationship flourish and bloom. It will lead to mistrust and you may end up looking for some other shoulder to cry on. Your relationship should be based on truth and trust instead of lies and hidden facts. Here are 6 things you should never hide from your bae.

1. Your sexual history

You will be tempted to keep your dirty deeds from your past to yourself. You may think he will not accept it and it is better to hide it from him. You should tell them about your sexual history, but of course not in details. You may have some health concerns to keep in mind when you indulge with someone new. Your sexual history and health affect you and your partner’s well-being. Do not hide your pregnancy or abortion with him, so that you both can decide what next you should do and take the responsibility.

2. The time you spend with people your partner does not like

If your partner does not like your friend and you cannot resist meeting or be talking with him or her, then hiding this will make you feel like you are compromising with your own personality, as you are not expressing your needs. Be responsible to yourself.

3. Any illness

If you have any health issue that you are ashamed of or thinks that it is no big deal, you should still share it with your partner. If you are truly into your relationship, let your partner know about this and what you are doing for this. It is not only going to affect you in long run. Your partner can help you with your problem.

4. How you spend your money

If you both live together, it is better you share about how you really spend your money. Tell your man about your addiction towards something or if you buy something on debt because if you hide it and the debt grows many folds, your man is going to be furious when you let him know then. Enjoy the things you purchase, free from guilt and worry that you are creating a financial burden on your man or he will be angry with you.

5. Your serious past relationship

Na matter how short-lived your past affair was, you should never hide it from your partner. You may think it’s no big deal, but when this ex suddenly shows up, seven years later, your partner will not be happy to know about him then. Disclose your past serious relationships so your man is not sabotaged by a surprise ex-visit or phone call.

6. Problems at work

Hiding the signs from your partner that you might lose your job will only make the situation worse. The longer you hide it, the harder it will be for you to tell your partner and the higher will be the chances of him being angry with you for not telling him this sooner. It is not just because you are going to lose your job; it will also make him feel that you are withholding things from him. It is better you just let it out as soon as you get the signs so that you can figure out your next move.