15 Questions All Women Want Men To Answer Truthfully!

By- Shreya Sharma

Yes, man and women are super different. And no, this difference is not only because of our body structure, it is something on a different level. That is the reason why there are so many problems when a man and a woman decide to be together. It is hard to figure out how to get along, how to communicate, how to make the other person happy and how to connect on an emotional level. We keep on trying as love, romance and relationship is something we so not wish to give up on. Sometimes, we all just wish to have a guy sit and answer us some nerve-wracking questions that make it hard for us to understand a guy. Here are 15 questions all women want men to answer truthfully.

1. Why do you hate commitment?

Why committing to one girl is such a big problem for guys? This is not a chronic disease that will kill you eventually. Sure, not all guys are afraid of commitment and that is why decided to be with us and date us. It is so frustrating to hear that guys are commitment phobic. Maybe those who fear commitment does not wish to commit to that one girl.

2. Are phone calls so awful?

When we date someone, we love to talk with them on phone sometimes as it fosters the sense of intimacy and makes us feel closer to our boyfriend. If we are out or working late, we miss our boyfriend and want to call him to feel better. Is that such a big deal to pick our call or make us a call? Do you really hate talking over the phone or do you just do it because others do it?

3. What is your problem with communication?

Male are not that keen to communicate especially about the topics related to the relationship. When we are dating someone, we want to know how they feel about us, about the relationship and about the future. Why are guys so against communication? Why does it upset them or shut them down emotionally? It is not boring always, sometimes it is logical and practical.

4. Why do you believe in the stereotype girlfriend?

We are not all like the clingy, zero-life girlfriend who will be angry if you step out with your friends or push the relationship forward no matter what. We do not like when you think that we will be that annoying sort of girlfriend. We are normal people and expect you not to be clingy and have your own life.  It is an insult for us who are not that stereotyped kind of girlfriends.

5. Are you afraid of settling down?

We would love to know if you really think that setting down is the worst thing or is this just the stereotyped set by society and movies? We do not think the relationship and settling down is scary if you have met the right kind of person. Maybe you are afraid because you do not care about the girl as much as she cares for you. If you get the feeling of being trapped, then you are right but do not fool the girl with you.

6. Do you tell your friend you are ‘whipped’?

This is super insulting and horrible to a woman. We wish to ask if you really use this terrible term or if this is just another stereotype. We may not witness any guy saying this in front of us or may not have the courage to ask you this, but we really wish an answer to this question.

7. Do you think marriage is the end of life?

Do you feel embarrassed that men are not supposed to want to get married or do you not even think about this? Being married is not a big deal. Sure, it is one big commitment and it should not be something that you take lightly. It does not mean your life is over, you can still have fun and do whatever you want.

8. Do you tell your mom everything?

We love to know how close you are with your mother. Do you tell your mother everything; about our first date, second date, about the girl you just met and wish to meet again? Do you keep it super quiet until you are sure that this is something big? This is something we always wonder especially when it is about meeting your family.

9. Do you notice if we gain weight?

It is said that the question “do I look fat?” freaks a guy out. But do you really notice if we gain weight? We all want to know if you really care about us gaining weight. Our appearance is always on our mind. We do notice when we gain some weight but it does not mean that we are insecure or we are not confident. It is just that we know when our body looks different.

10. Do you actually want to go slow?

When we want to go slow with a new guy, we have so many reasons for it. It could be that we had been single since long, or we had a bad past or because we were not expecting this. So, do you actually want to go slow, when we ask you to? Sure you are agreeing with us because you want to date us, but is this a willing decision or just a lie?

11. Are you comfortable with waiting?

We might ask you to wait to sleep together. It does not mean that we do not like you or do not feel safe with you; it only means that we feel that the time is not right yet. We want to date a guy who is totally fine with this and does not pressurize us and wait for us to give a nod. We just want to know if you really are cool and okay with this or not? Saying the truth will not make you bad.

12. Are you actually happy with us?

Are you actually happy with us and wish to stay with us forever and ever? Are we the girl that you ever dream of or are you just settling? We just wish to know the truth to these bold questions. We want to know about how you really feel about us. Do you really feel that we are a good match?

13. Do you want to dump us?

If you are ignoring our calls, canceling plans at last moment and yet totally refusing to dump us, then we just want to know, do you want to dump us? We just want to know the truth, however, brutal it is. It is our relationship, our life, and future and we want to know the truth. We do not mind if you do not text as instantly or reschedule a few dates, but if this keeps happening, then we have to think about this.

14. Do you think about your ex-girlfriend?

It is really okay if you do. If you ask us the same question, we will be honest. We get that you might think about your ex from time to time. We even get that you might think about her in bed sometimes because hey, you’re human and you’re bound to do that. HOWEVER, we’re not okay if you do that all the time. So be careful with how you answer this. Because this question might be way too brutal for you to even answer.

15. Do you like to sleep at our place?

The way we stay in your place, we also want you to stay over our place and sleep at our place. Do we want to know if you like sleeping at our apartment? If we have a roommate, how do you feel about her? Do you hate her? Do you hate the girly stuff in our room? We know you have never told us this because it is kind of insulting, but we would love to know about this.