If You Really Love Him You Would Be Able To Do These 10 Things Around Him!

By- Shreya Sharma

We all have this question in mind as to when we will get to know if we have found “the one”. While the criteria for “the one” may vary from person to person, still the basis for a solid relationship is comfort and trust. You should be comfortable and have trust on the guy and that is what makes your relationship healthy. Here are 20 things that you will be able to do if you really love him.

1. The silence seems comfortable

You do not mind saying anything that comes to your mind, but sometimes, you are comfortable around him without saying a word. You are comfortable cuddling and watching a movie together. You just need each other. You do not feel the need to fill the empty space with words.

2. Dress down when hanging out

When it is the initial stage of a relationship, you dress your best to impress him. But now, you do not feel the pressure to be best dressed on a casual night. Now comfort is your priority and you opt for pajamas and oversized t-shirts. And your guy finds you as beautifully dressed down as on date nights.

3. Feel comfortable without makeup

We all want to look our best but not always want to treat ourselves with makeup. Going fresh face and natural in the initial stage of the relationship can be a little bit difficult because you want to look beautiful for your partner. If you can easily go to him sans makeup and feel comfortable even then, you have reached a milestone.

4. You call or text him at anytime

It is midnight, he is sleeping, but there is so much in your mind that you cannot sleep. You pick up your phone and text him telling how you are not being able to put your mind to rest. And he texts you back immediately. You have become so close that you know he is there for you whenever you need him.

5. You can talk with him without filters

While you were in the early times of your relationship, you used to be quite careful while picking up controversial topics. You did not want to offend him. Now, you tell him what you think, unfiltered and honestly. You trust him enough to tell him how you feel and he respects you.

6. He is comfortable with womanly issues

Whether it grosses him out or makes him nervous, but he has become perfect with handling the issues of your menstrual cycle. He asks you about how you are doing and if he can get you anything to make it feel better. He is sure a keeper.

7. You can eat whatever you want

At the early stage of your relationship, you used to think before eating, as you were worried about what he would think. But now you embrace your appetite around him and share about your food cravings with him easily.

8. You share your deep secrets

It takes a lot of trusts to tell someone about the things that make you feel ashamed and embarrassed. You have told your partner the things you have shared only with your BFF or no one. You know he will not judge you. There is just love, support, and understanding that he will offer you.

9. Tell him you love him

It is often easy to show your love than to tell someone about your love. Telling someone that you love him is the most vulnerable thing.  It’s a frequently used expression in your relationship now: a sign that you value each other dearly and play a vital role in each other’s lives.

10. You laugh at things together

You two laugh a lot, whether the thing is funny or ironic. Your combined sense of humor is terrific, that it takes you few minutes to burst up laughing, turning red and wiping tears from your eyes. You connect on that level that you share humor and laughter.