17 Ways He Should Be Respectful Towards You In Bedroom!
By- Shreya Sharma
If you are not comfortable with a guy or if he makes you feel uneasy, you are not obliged to have sex with him. You should not have sex with him if you are not completely comfortable with them. You deserve to be treated right and with respect, be it in the bed or out of bed. Your guy must know how to make you feel comfortable and respect you. After all, your consent is important. Here are 17 ways he should be respectful towards you in the bedroom.
- Allows you to set the pace
He should respect you if you want to slow down things. He should not force you to move faster than you want to move. If you want to take months before moving on to next level, he should respect it.
- Protection is a must
He should not make any excuse for refusing to wear the condom. Even if he feels sex is better without condoms or if he says he is clean and will manage, he must wear a condom to keep you safe from pregnancies and STDs.
- Getting test for STD done
There is no harm in asking for proof that the person you are planning to sleep with is free from diseases. If you ask him, he should get tested.
- Waits for your consent
Just because he is your boyfriend, does not mean he has the right to sleep with you. Your consent is important. So before he initiates anything, he should wait for your approval.
- Respect your limits and boundaries
If he actually cares about you, he will respect your boundaries even if he does not agree with them.
- Should not make you feel guilty
He should not make you feel guilt by saying that he deserves it or all his friends are getting laid.
- Talks about this with you
He should talk with you about sex before actually indulging into it. This is the way he can know what you are comfortable with.
- Using safe word
You should have a safe word during sex, and when you use it, he should stop immediately.
- Tell you about his intentions
He should be clear if he wants to have you in bed or in his head. This will save you from the confusion.
- He should not share his sex life with his friends
He should keep his sex life private and should not brag about all the things you did with him.
- He should not make you do all the work
You should not always be the woman on top and doing all the work. You both should put in equal efforts.
- Should not only care about his orgasm
Woman take a little more time to orgasm as compared to man, but this does not mean you do not deserve to finish. You both deserve the orgasm.
- No negative comments about your body
He should feel lucky to see your natural self instead of passing mean comments about how you look.
- Should not call you mean names
He might get carried away in the heat of the moment, but he should not call you a ‘slut’ assuming that you will take it as a compliment.
- Stops when it hurts you
If you feel pain during nay point of sex, he should stop immediately. When he really loves you, he will not want to hurt you.
- Makes you feel beautiful
Having sex with the right person will make you feel beautiful. If you are too conscious, you might not be with the right guy.
- Accepts your NO
He should understand that ‘No’ means “NO’.
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