Is He Not Texting Back? 15 Things You Can Do!
By- Shreya Sharma
We all have been through this; when we are into someone and we think they are into us too and suddenly they just disappear into thin air. They suddenly stop texting you back and you think it is over. You stress and worry and wonder what you did wrong. It sure hurts when the one you like stops texting you back, but this is not the end of the world. Here are 15 things you can do if he is not texting back.
- Do not worry about what you did
It is probably not your fault that he is not texting you back unless you did something really odd.
- Send one light-hearted text
Keep things casual and light and do not overdo it. Ask what’s up to know what he is up to really.
- Do not send him multiple texts
It is true; we want to blow their phone off with messages when someone does not answer. But you need to avoid this. It gives the other person more power over you and you will be angry at yourself.
- Text your friends
If your crush is not texting you back, text your friends instead. They will let you vent out, keep you distracted, and you will be able to figure out your feelings.
- Meet them in person
Face-to-face conversations can reveal a lot about them. So, if you see each other daily, meet them.
- Vent out wisely
Avoid talking about your feelings in front of mutual friends. You do not want your crush to know that you were upset with him for not texting you back.
- Do not go vague
Do not put vague statuses, indirectly targeting your crush for not texting you. This is immature, messy and pointless and it will not make him text you back.
- Avoid sub-tweeting
Do not get angry on social media. Do not throw hints over there. It will only make things messy.
- Do not analyze your interactions
It will make you blame yourself. Do not analyze everything you have done or said.
- No ‘accidental’ texts
Do not ‘accidentally’ send a text to your crush that was meant for someone else. This is silly and your crush will know that it was not ‘accidental’.
- Give him some space
If he does not want to text you, let it be. Give him some space and focus on yourself.
- Distract yourself
Join some classes, pick up a hobby, hit the gym, go on a trip or do anything that will distract you.
- Be with people who love you
Be with your friends. Spend time with your family. Flirt with the guy hitting on you. Surround yourself with love.
- Talk with a trustworthy mutual friend
If you have one trustworthy mutual friend, you can go to them and ask them what is going on. Make it clear that you do not want to make them feel uncomfortable and you understand if they cannot tell you anything.
- Understand he is not the one
After a while, you need to realize that he is not worth your time. You cannot spend your life waiting for someone. Understand that he is not good enough for you.
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