10 Things I Wish I Knew Before My *First* Blow Job!
By- Shreya Sharma
The first time blow job can be strange because of first your hesitation, second the technique as to how to do it. Starting off with a hard penis and knowing you will have to put it in your mouth can be awkward as hell. It is very different from what you have imagined and seen in movies. Here are the things you should know before giving your first blow job.
- If you do not want to do it, do not do it!
He really wants you to do it but do not make yourself do something that you do not want to do just to make him like you.
- Tie your hair back
They will be disturbing plus you do not want any of yours or his stuff on them.
- Do not be disappointed if he does not reach climax just from you going down on him.
It does not mean that you were not good enough. He enjoyed it, it is just that it was kind of foreplay for him.
- Surprise!!
He can finish in your mouth. Be careful and have words about it beforehand.
- Do not panic
You might feel his penis making you choke while you have it in your mouth. Panicking will make things worse. Stay calm and take a deep breath.
- You will want to come up for air more than once
Because you will find it hard to breathe while your mouth is busy. You are not trained to breath with your nose.
- Your jaws will start hurting
You might feel your jaw hurting even in just a few minutes. It is normal.
- Your mouth is not automatically designed for blowjob
You will try some weird, uncomfortable and different angles.
- It can be slippery
The texture of the penis might be different from what you imagined. It can be slippery. Every penis is not the same.
- Sometimes a penis does not smell good
Some guys are less clean than others and also sweat more than others so it is better to ask your bae to go for a shower beforehand.