It‘s Totally Normal If You CAN’T Orgasm… 8 Other $ex-Problems That Aren’t Really Problems!

By- Shreya Sharma

To improve your sex life is one healthy goal. You wish to spice it up but before that come the stage of inhibitions. It could be problem with you or your partner or it could be that you want to try something new because others are doing it. It is time you let the inhibitions go away. Here are the sex problems that are not actually problems.

1. Being VANILLA kind of person!!

There is nothing wrong if your experimentation list is not too long. You might want to experience different positions and fetish but the truth is they are not for everyone. If you find it difficult to experiment sexually, it is not a problem. Do not feel pressurized and engage in things that are not comfortable for you.

2. Not liking the “simple-typical” things

People may find it difficult to engage in standard sexual activities. You need to figure out what you both like and dislike. Your life is your own and you can make choice regarding it whether you like intercourse, oral sex or other activity.

3. Not Being able to get *Aroused*

 It does not mean you are not attracted towards your partner or they do not turn you on. Your medication, period cycle or temperature plays an important role in this. Use lubes to get it smooth.

4. No long lasting sex

A quickie can work sometimes. The average sex session lasts about five minutes. You may read to extend the length of it but for some couples it is plenty of time.

5. Watching loads of porn

There comes a point when you consume porn so much that it is hard for you to get aroused by your partner. And to some it is not at all addictive. Watching porn together and sharing what you like can help you and your partner get in mood and get closer.

6. Having a low sex-drive

You might see rom-coms but happiest couples actually have sex once in a week on average. If you want to have more sex, there are ways to increase your libido by exercising and de-stressing.

7. Uneven labia

Vulva has a lot more variation and is not as seen in porn. Over one-third of people think their genitals are abnormal. Long labia do not usually cause discomfort. There is nothing to feel stressed about.

8. Not being able to orgasm through intercourse

If you do not come from sex, it is normal. The distance between your clitoris and vagina determines whether you will be able to get off through intercourse—so there’s no need to force it. Plus, it just provides one more reason to spend extra time on foreplay, after-play, and play of all varieties.