14 Important Questions To Ask Early In A Relationship!

By- Shreya Sharma

When in the relationship, it is important to know if you and your partner are on the same level or not before you complete a year together. Usually, the first year is the honeymoon period and we are so drowning in love that we hardly see the faults and differences, it is later that we recognize the things we hate or that there is the lack of compatibility or any such issue. We may advise you to play cool in the initial days, but it is better to ask certain important questions before you get serious, instead of going blindly into a relationship. Here are 14 important questions to ask early in a relationship.

1. About future together

You will feel shattered if you get to know that you are dating someone who does not want anything more than a casual relationship. Being together for years does not mean the person with you will surely want a future with you.

2. About kids

The topic of kids can work as a deal breaker in many relationships. It is better if you both have the same opinion over this, else growing together with conflicting ideas can trouble you later. Find out now to avoid arguments later.

3. About the things, he will never compromise on

There are people who have their standards high and do not wish to compromise on things. It is better to know about their limits now and see if they are a deal breaker for you.

4. About problems from his parents and friends

This usually comes into existence when they are actually a problem in your relationship. You should know if the person you are dating will stand up for you or not. If his parents or best friend hates you, will he stand by you or leave you?

5. About his priorities

If you are not on his priority list, do not waste your time on him. See if his priorities match with yours. His priorities should have you, his family, friends, career and dream.

6. About his views on women

If he is dating you, does not mean he respects women. It is important to have his take on women so that you can decide whether to continue your relationship or walk away.

7. About the importance of sex

If you have different sex drives and sexual preferences, your relationship might be doomed sooner or later. This is one important question to ask about. Ask him about the how often he has to have it and what things he will never do.

8. About his religious and political views

If you both cannot agree on same religious and political views, you will end up having more arguments in your relationship. And if he is too passionate about either, he will never be willing to compromise.

9. About independent woman

When you are with someone for a few months that is when you get to know how independent you are. Ask your partner if your independent nature is traumatic for him. It will tell you about how much he respects the woman.

10. About what you want from your life

Think about if you want to date a man-child and raise him or if you can do better than this. Ask your man about his career and goals and how he plans to achieve them. This way you can know if you can spend your life with him or not.

11. About the deal breakers

It is important to know what the deal breakers are for you and him. Like; it will be hard to deal with someone who is a non-vegetarian if you are pure vegetarian.

12. About how to handle fights

Everyone has different fighting style, so it is important to know if your man will throw fits after the fight or will cool down and then talk about it. You should know if you will be able to handle his way of fighting.

13. About prejudice

You might find it odd to ask this question, but it is important to know if you are dating someone who hates the certain race, gender or nationality.

14. About financial situation

The moment things start to get serious, it’s time to ask. After all, if you’re looking at a future together, you need to know if you’re both financially able to support each other and buy things like a house.